The Physical

There is a website I created long ago dedicated to my Libido. It is called Libboland and explains, giving examples of famous people, what turns my libido on. There is a page for each of the five senses, but the visual libido is the most dominant aspect of my sensual psyche so there are people listed (and the specific attributes each possess) that inspire the greatest sensual desire in me. If you want to be my lover, looking like those on the Libbo Eyes page would get you an interview (if you are not laughing, your sense of humor would likely get you no more than a one night stand... if you are still not laughing, you might not even get that). The physical is transient, temporary, but oh so vital to be my lover.

So yes, sense of humor is as important as anything for me when it comes to physical attraction and sharing bodies. Intelligence is as important (and goes hand in hand with sense of humor if you are intelligent enough to understand the ways of the brain and psyche). Understanding each other is at the core of any attraction for me. Kindness, altruism, and the ability to actualize unconditional love and unconditional trust are powerful attractors. You can read through my old BIOS for more insight (the site is a snapshot in words of "me" that is almost twenty years old).

On a purely physical level, faces grab my libido's attantion first. Eyes and lips dominate, but noses and the overall face can melt or repel me. It is instinctive and not always simple to describe why. Petite fit bodies appeal to my libido most. Fat and flabby bodies repulse my libido. Maybe it's a primal instinct, maybe it is just my libido. Let's not judge, for judgmental perspectives and attitudes are repulsive to my libido. Acceptance of each other as we are and accepting attractions and preferences as they are is essential to getting respect for me. Respect is essential to move past a momentary liason or even to get one.

In any case, if you look like one of these people in the photos below, you are welcome (and encouraged) to come and knock on my door as a potential lover. See through Libbo Eyes (linked above) for other looks also welcome (and understand if you want to stay) :)